rob nelms’ blog

Trust TRUST tRUST..I feel that with out trust you cant build anything i am aperson who is very trust worthy i have a 19 year old son who does not live with me who i love very much.i have a job a dirty job but a good one i work in the oil field its kinda hard meeting people.iam looking for someone to start a life with someone who wants to have a future together.i am in real good shape and like to work out when i have the time i am a good old boy from the old school of life i don"t bullsh*tpeople . I believe very strongly that you treat others the way that you want them to treat you and I live by that! What I'm looking for right now is to just be very good friends with someone, without them trying too hard, without any expectations. Someone who will just let things happen. And if something grows from that, then that’s great, if not, then it wasn’t meant to be. I just don’t want to rush into something again until I know it’s right to take things to the next step. No pressure! I just want to live life and be happy again and let the pain from the past fade away. :)The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.Final Thoughts-What I’ve learned from past relationships:
Flossing is important. Laughing is essential. Perfection is impossible. Better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it’s worth it, I’ll work for it; if it’s not I won’t. Don’t say anything you’ll regret because you can’t take it back. Finally, you must expose yourself emotionally—it’s the only way to reap love’s greatest rewards don't you think???

I am as"REAL" as it gets. I hate playing all the high school dating games of waiting for people to call or acting like I am not interested in order to gain someones interests.I have had it all and I have lost it all. I have been the cheater, and I have been cheated on. I have been the taker and also the giver. I have finally came to the point in my life where Im ready to take all the lessons and life trials and put them all together and apply them with another I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. This dating is hard work. I think Im ready to retire. lol Life is to short & time is to valuable at this pointin my life for all that. So if you are the type of person who see's the cup as half full, rather than half empty & believes that life is a two way street. Not a one way dead end? Then I hope your still reading. However if you are one who chooses to "see" life with rose colored glasses on and think that"Good things should come easy?" See your way out of my site please.NEXT!!! alsoWe live in an uncertain world. When we leave home in the morning, we assume we will return in the evening. When we say good-bye to loved ones, we take it for granted we will see them again. We presume they know we love them, so we seldom say the words. Unfortunately, we fail to consider the mortal reality that this may not be the case.... until it's too late. Tomorrow does not always come.Someone once said that "life is short, so keep short accounts with God." That is wise advice, but I'd like to add that we should also keep short accounts with every person who is in the circle of our lives. We never know when life will be dramatically changed... sometimes permanently.Think about it. Don't allow the regrets of " if only I knew" to be the final marker of your life. Be swift to love. Hurry to be kind. Take the time to make someone feel special. Freely give hugs and kisses, and may "I love you" be often on your lips.Lance Wubbels"Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.... Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality. Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another.... Do not be conceited. Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.